THIS IS WORK – NOT PERSONAL
While many of us go to concerts and events to enjoy the show – there is a handful of people who go to shows to BULLY THEIR WAY in <~ or to gain access to places they do not belong – like back stage or staff only areas.

OFTEN TIMES – someone will grab you up to “talk” and for me – that is scary because I can’t hear shit as is – so when I’m in a loud environment and someone grabs me to “talk” at a show – I don’t hear anything and when I walk away they probably think I’m ignoring them.
THIS CAUSES A LOT OF ISSUES BECAUSE – I’m not ignoring you – I just can’t here you and I’m not there just to be there – I have a job and that comes with a lot of responsibilities.

SEE – we interact on social media – so if people want to talk – there is room / opportunity to talk – the problem is – most people want to ask you to do something for them – or – ask you to give them something like – room on a show – that they had nothing to do with when it came to do promotion etc.
THE REASON WE DO SHOWCASES – is because – we know – once a artist performs – a % of people will want to talk to them and – in many cases – help the artist because TALENT inspires people – in ways we cannot explain.
YOU NEVER HELD A JOB – but that kid has talent – and YOU CAN MANAGE THEM – you bully yourself into the mix and tell the kid what YOU CAN DO for them – meanwhile – YOU NEVER DID ANYTHING FOR YOURSELF.

You can’t pay your bills – your in and out of jail and – on top of that – your dealing with the same obstacles that kid you can “help” has – so how can you help them – when you are the older version of what they are going to become if they continue to get stopped by people who claim they can “help” them.

WHEN IT COMES TO OPPORTUNITIES – if someone else – who worked to create a opportunity for themselves and others – doesn’t have time to talk – you might want to check your resume and lack of understanding when it comes to BUSINESS.
Let’s do it like this – you work hard to put 12 eggs in a carton and magically – someone plops 4 eggs on top of those 12 and ask you to close the lid <~ you can’t do it without breaking eggs – the same ones you worked so hard to find and put in the carton.
That’s what it’s like – when artist try to “talk” business – vs. work <~ to get one of those spots <~ so they fit into the plan.
WHEN I BROKER A DEAL – many artist who never – had experience in business let alone this fake – industry stuff we see in Connecticut – don’t understand – their involvement – and their shallow reasons for being involved – make it impossible to take the work we do – and make it turn into profit.

PEOPLE STEP ON TOES – just by talking on facebook – all the personal information that we share daily becomes who we are as business entities and that gives people MORE motivation to reach out to – “TALK”
LET ME HELP YOU – magically turns into a partnership – when partners – split the cost to do business and – bring business to one another – business that involves the transfer of goods and services in exchange for – MONEY.
See where I’m going with this ? While a lot of us – like to believe – we can “Help” when we see someone doing something they worked on for years <~ to make look as good as it does – make it look so good that you think – you can step in – and make it work so much better or – you can benefit by being a part of it when the reality is – your presence in the situation – makes everyone – uncomfortable.

IT’S LIKE THAT CREEPY DUDE AT THE PLAYGROUND who has no kids but wants to talk to all the single mothers – while asking which kid is theirs, it’s just – uncomfortable. You want to be polite but – being polite opens the door for people to go around saying they “know you” or “work with you” which can impact the work you do in a negative way <~ since – I work with two people – and those people live with me.
YES – I have affiliations with other entities but in many cases all we are doing is cross promotion – sharing resources etc. FOR THE SAKE OF FACEBOOK AND TWITTER – it’s all for marketing purposes / outreach to the people struggling in the local market.
WE DO BUSINESS when money is involved and for me – I recognize many people don’t have money to sponsor their own work – so I promote FREE SERVICES to get them involved in healthy / networking situations – while – helping to provide a professional profile for them.

I also work with local talent to get them involved with my internet radio station – by working with me – and putting their music on the station – I can educate them in real time the value of networking with others in our communities to help each other gain the audience we need – to gain value – with the work we produce.
EVERYONE IS CHASING FAME when we should be establishing a solid foundation to conduct business once we get that fame. You can make these plans with a pen / pad and healthy conversations – the same way a lot of us – figure it out – when we are sitting in a cell – staring at the walls for how many hours… we finally get into reading/writing/working out etc. – then – we come home – and slowly but surely – those things fade away and we stuck.

BULLYING OUR WAY into shows – up to promoters – or – other places we just don’t belong.
SO NEXT TIME YOU THINK ABOUT RUSHING A SHOW – think – AM I HURTING THE CULTURE?
Is the person I am trying to get close to – seeing me – or are they seeing the people I look like – and – if I’m hurting people who look like me get ahead – by BULLYING my way into situations I don’t belong – how am I going to call anyone else a VULTURE?
Humanity has a lot of pieces that a lot of us don’t fully understand – we know right from wrong in many cases – but we forget to look at how some of our actions contribute to WRONGS that run deep throughout society.
NEXT TIME you plan on going to a concert – ignore trying to get close to the people “in charge” because you need to understand: THEY ARE DOING THEIR JOB.

Take pictures while you are at the event – connect with other people at the event and exchange IG’s while you explain who you are and what you do – also – get clips – record drops – explain what you are doing <~ if you bought a ticket – say it <~ or create content for PROMOTIONAL USE <~ but don’t – bother the people who are working – WHILE THEY ARE WORKING – because it will not help your reputation at all.
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